The feminist movement that has swept across the world has done much to better the plight of women in many societies. It has lifted women from poverty, abuse and discrimination. However, the movement has also done some harm in relation to marital roles. One of the biggest mistakes feminists make is that they pit men and women against each other. We are not in a contest to see which role is better, or which gender is the best. We complement each other and should honor one another’s position. When we work together, we are both stronger.
Another side effect of the feminist movement is that it has empowered women to seek divorce, or even to just have children outside of marriage. Children need both a father and a mother. Yes, a mother’s role is very important. In fact, it is so important that she should consider staying home when there are pre-school children in the family. Her role as teacher and caretaker is very important, and no one else in the world can raise her children the way she does. Working mothers miss so much—baby’s first word, baby’s first step, etc. She can pursue a career before she has children and after they have started going to school—or she can work from home. There are many jobs that can be done right from the living room. However, never put your job before you children; they need your attention.
You should also ensure that their father has input in the children’s lives. Make sure that he has time at home with them, as well. A father’s role is also very important. In fact, studies show that our prisons are full of men and women who had no father in their lives, or their father was neglectful or abusive. A young lady who isn’t assured of her father’s love will often look for love outside with the first candidate that presents himself, often to her detriment. So, encourage your husband to spend time with his children in the evenings and on weekends and holidays. This can make a world of difference in your children’s lives.