Suppose that casual conversations with a friend lead to a more purposeful study of the Bible. Try to arrange a time and place where you can open the Bible together and focus on its message. Even better, try to make that a series of weekly appointments.
- Example: Marco, I’ve really enjoyed our discussions. It seems that we both are interested in the Bible’s answers to our questions. Would you like to make a time for us to open the Bible together? Which evening would be better for you, Tuesday or Thursday? Would 7 to 8 p.m. be a good time for you? Which place would you prefer, my place or yours?”
Notice that the invitation expects a positive response and offers positive choices (as compared with a negative, “Marco, you don’t want a Bible study, do you?”). The details help to make the appointment firm (as compared with “sometime” and “someplace”).
In cultures that are time-conscious, think about limiting the study period to one hour, at least at the beginning. When people know that you are punctual and considerate of their time, they are more likely to consider a regular appointment with you. If possible, choose a place that is free from distractions. Suppose that you arrive at a home and a loud TV is on. You may ask politely if another room is available or if the TV can be turned down. In every case, use good judgment as to what seems appropriate and helpful. Build relationships in which Bible study can thrive.