In every aspect of life, we must make decisions. No matter what work you are doing, if you want to do the work well, you must make important decisions about your work ethic and your ongoing training. A person who wants to be a good teacher makes decisions to develop skills for teaching. A good football player decides to exercise regularly and learn the skills needed to succeed. The same is true for a strong family. You must take an honest look at yourself and make the important decision to develop the skills for having a strong family.